HIDDEN THERAPIST SECRETS THINGS TO AVOID!!
This can be applied to all types of therapy.
Warning: Many therapists are victims also.
This means that a large percentage are functional psychotics. (rapists/molesters)
Trauma groups are usually comprised of many
victims trying to help.
There is a lesbian rape group online. Victims
were abused by another lesbian while under hypnosis. The councilor being a woman is no assurance against abuse.
Getting a referral from a major hospital will
help prevent problems.
Perhaps not 100%.
One woman went to 15 therapists before finding
a good one. 15!
Persistence will give you eventual satisfaction.
Persistence will give you eventual satisfaction.
Persistence will give you eventual satisfaction.
SHE'S EXTREMELY HAPPY WITH THIS ONE!
DON'T TAKE REFERRALS FROM REJECTED THERAPISTS.
On treatment by a victim. It will find you
a sympathetic listener. It does not mean that they will give you good advice. How can they tell you about normalcy when they
have no idea?
Sympathy, while it may make you feel better
while in the office, can leave you cold in the world. Feeling better in the world a sign that you have chosen a good therapist.
Strong words sometimes bring victims into shaking:
but sometimes they may be necessary to achieve progress. Confrontation is necessary
at times, and victims are usually too sympathetic
to do it.
Advice given by a victim, is like the blind
leading the blind. They can't judge what normal actions are, so how could they tell you?
Below are the words of a strong, nonvictim
therapist.
"I have never been a victim and I have never
abused drugs. I don't think that
those people make for the best therapists.
Those that have gone through it have problems that are unresolved.
They cannot give an unbiased view of reality..
They are too busy trying to compare their experiences with everyone who comes through their doors.
"K R Stewart.
It is very important to try different counselors,
find one that heals you. Not just makes you dependant and bills you! Get a therapist who has not been through your trauma.
BEING A VICTIM IS OFTEN A CHARACTERISTIC AMONGST
THERAPISTS.
You can not ask, "Are you a victim too?" 60%
of molestation victims have amnesia, so couldn't tell you. Others are desperate to conceal this information. 80% of
rapists are molestation victims. Just as you would not pick a bad doctor to treat your body, don't stay with a bad therapist.
People who have been abused have stuffed feelings
for too long and need to get it out. TALK about it and that is what this group is for. Other people will write you and tell
you that they had so many of the same feelings and will tell you how they coped.
Love yourself and give yourself credit for
surviving . Say a lesser person would have fallen apart, but I am still here, still going on with life.
Reclaim your innocence and let the little person
in you come out to play, let the big you love the little you.
Love katie
"My therapist had me crying before I read "THERAPIST
CHOICE"
Thanks for your advice. Yep, I switched therapists
and this one seems
so much better for me than the other one did.
It's much more intense, but maybe that's what
I needed I know I've got a long road ahead of me, but I'm trying my hardest.
Thanks,
Wendy
THERAPIST ABUSE COMMON!
80% of rapists have been molested. A lesbian
therapist caused, "Raped By A Dildo." a lesbian experience online. A woman therapist is not insurance against abuse. It is
very important to try different counselors. However, if they are a victim of the same trauma, it may be a case of the blind
leading the blind.
Consider, how can a trauma victim tell
another how to relate to normal life? They can't!
You can't ask, "Are you a victim too?"
Abusers will merely lie, or have amnesia about
their abuse. It is an intimate relationship, where control abuse, and sexual abuse happen regularly.
80% of molesters or rapists were molested.
Excerpt below:
"As high as 13.7 percent of male [therapists
responding] and 3.1 percent of
female respondents have reported engaging in
some form of erotic contact with at least one patient." One survey of practicing therapists found that 70 percent were aware
of at least one patient who had been sexually involved
with with their therapist.
Studies of practicing therapists estimate that,
in their observations,
between eighty-seven and ninety percent of
the patients who have had sexual contact with their therapist are damaged.>
Above excerpt is from a female lawyer at: http://www.wwlia.org/us-prosx.htm
Many police departments will not give adequate
protection. Go to a big city
department. Speak only to a woman officer if
possible. Seek out sergeants or corporals for the best results. Write down the names of all that help you. If not happy with
the attitude you receive, ask for someone else.
CAREFULLY! WE EMPHASIZE
CAREFULLY. THIS IS A VERY DANGEROUS FIELD.
DON'T LEAVE YOUR CHILD ALONE WITH THE THERAPIST,
NO MATTER HOW STRENUOUSLY THEY OBJECT.
TRUST NO ONE,
NOT EVEN THE POLICE. BE VERY CAREFUL!
